revolves around everyday life like
running errands.
"Our kids knew what the inside
of a Home Depot was before they
could walk," said Ford. "Usually
trips involve a ride on the
lumber cart and a pit stop at
the local bakery."
Riding around town together
gives Ford and his children time to
talk and enjoy each other's
company. "I also schedule one-onone time with each child and plan
trips to the movies or dinner," said
Ford. "With the busy schedules my
wife and I have I just try to utilize
time to spend with them.
I am fortunate that my kids are
at an age where they want to go
anywhere I am." Ford knows at
some point that will change and the
kids will demand some sort of
compensation, but he's enjoying it
while it lasts.
As I reflect back on my conversations with my fellow dads, I hope I
can develop a lasting bond with my
girls and create the kind of
memories for them that I have of
my father. It is refreshing to know
you don't need to do big things to
form a bond. Instead, do simple,
everyday things that might go
overlooked by others. Whether it is
doing errands, going for a nature
walk, or simply enjoying the sounds
of beautiful music together, children
will not overlook these activities.
As we run around and try to pack
our children's days with piano
lessons, gymnastics and the like,
don't forget to slow down and take
that extra time to be in the moment
and enjoy your little ones.
Dan Chuckran lives with his wife
and twin daughters in Warwick.
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