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19. How do I care for my
wounds? If you had tearing during
delivery or have stitches
from a c-section, infection
prevention is top priority. Ask your
doctor to teach you how to clean
and soothe your wounds.
20. What are my contraception
options? Ovulation is typically
suspended for moms who
breastfeed more than 6 times per
day, but there are exceptions.
"If you notice your period is
abnormal, alert your doctor
right away," says Turk.
Heidi Smith Luedtke is a personality
psychologist and mom of two.
She writes about self-improvement,
people skills and parenting. You can
learn more at HeidiLuedtke.com
Not getting the answers
you deserve?
Sometimes even the best questions don't yield the answers you
seek. Don't give up after asking one time or even ten times!
Some times it's as simple as explaining to the doctor exactly
what you're trying to figure out, but if you are still not getting the
answers you are looking for, try the following:
1. Ask again. It's possible your provider was distracted or didn't
understand your query.
2. Find a fill-in. Other office staff, including nurses and
midwives, may have more time to address questions.
3. See a specialist. Your provider may be uncomfortable giving
advice outside her area of expertise.
4. Say goodbye. A practitioner who consistently brushes your
concerns aside isn't in your corner. Find a new provider. Your well-
being is worth the hassle.
